grow apart

No object

This verb takes no object at all.

How to say it

Stress the particle, not the verb: grow APART. Saying “GROW apart” is the clearest learner tell — the verb stays light and the particle carries the beat.

A glide appears. Two vowels meet, so American English slips a /w/ between them: “grow apart” → “grow-wapart”. You do not insert it deliberately — it falls out of not stopping between the words.

What it means

  1. To gradually become emotionally distant from someone.

    • They didn't argue — they just grew apart.
    • We grew apart after university.

    Similar: drift apart

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